Begin your prayer time by lighting a candle or by ringing the opening bell in the right hand column at the website here. Allow the ringing of the bell to draw you into sacred space with God. Take a few deep breaths, breathing in God's love and presence, breathing out any distractions, plans or worries.
Lord, Jesus Christ, teach me to pray.
Prepare yourself for the reading of the scripture passage by quieting yourself and asking God to speak to you in this passage. Read the passage slowly with both the mind and the heart, at least two times.
A Reading from the Gospel according to Mark [4:35-41]
On that day, when evening had come, Jesus said to them, “Let us go across to the other side.” And leaving the crowd behind, they took him with them in the boat, just as he was. Other boats were with him. A great windstorm arose, and the waves beat into the boat, so that the boat was already being swamped. But he was in the stern, asleep on the cushion; and they woke him up and said tho him, “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?” He woke up and rebuked the wind, and said to the sea, “Peace! Be still!” The the wind ceased, and there was a dead calm. He said to them, “Why are you afraid? Have you still no faith?” And they were filled with great awe and said to one another, “Who then is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?”
A Prayer for “Help”
In her spiritual memoir, Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Fatih, the author Anne Lamott tells us that her two best prayers are “Help me. Help me. Help me.” and “Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.”
Some of us have an uneasy relationship with asking for help. In our American culture we have been taught to go it alone, to depend on ourselves, and to make our own way. And while this may be the American way, it really isn’t the Christian way. In his book, The Big Book of Christian Mysticism, Carl McColman talks about the fact that first and foremost the Christian religion is relational, and if whatever we are doing is not relational it is likely not Christian. We cannot possibly do this christianity thing alone. We do it through and with God, Jesus and the Spirit and we do it through and with each other.
I have heard people say that they don’t feel comfortable asking God for anything for themselves. And yet, in the Lord’s prayer, the prayer that Jesus himself taught his disciples to pray, we see him asking for his food, to be able to withstand temptation and to be kept safe. Have any of us ever asked our parents for something? Of course we did and do. We expect that they will help us. And we should expect that God, the loving Father, will help us. And then, when we do ask, we must ask in faith, believing that God’s help is available to us.
No matter what is going on in your life today, whether there is crisis, utter calm, or somewhere in between, I invite you to pray the prayers that Anne Lamott shared with us.
Simply repeat over and over again,
Help me. Help me. Help me.
and then,
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Spend several minutes with the two prayers.
When you are finished write in your journal about what it felt like to ask for God’s help. How would/does it feel to ask your friends for help? Your church family? Are you dependent on God in any way or are you able to do it all on your own? What did it feel like to say thank you?
Loving God, I have asked for your help. Give me the grace to receive it. Thank you. Amen.